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• 《游向彼岸》——格鲁夫渡过去了

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  在豆瓣上看到《游向彼岸》推荐，但到去图书馆的路上却记成了“飘向彼岸”，看完书，才意识到格鲁夫横渡大西洋到达美国时一点也不轻盈，所以是“游”，而不是“飘”。

  这本书大概是记录着格鲁夫从出生到20岁时的一些传奇经历，当然，社会的背景是二战后期到冷战前期。这是一个动荡的年代，注定有着一位位传奇人物的诞生，格鲁夫便是一位，聪明的犹太人中的一位。

  小格鲁夫命途多舛，刚有记忆开始就得了可怕的猩红热，还好出生在一个家境不错的家庭中，父母亲思想开明，给小格鲁夫的成长提供了很好的成长环境，这从他以后的思想和行为中可以看出，他总是能保持独立行事的风格。

  小格鲁夫5岁时父亲便被应征入伍，他和母亲相依为命，为躲避毒害改名换姓，亲眼目睹了战争的残酷，小格鲁夫的聪慧也在这里得到展示。《教理回答》一则就让人对小格鲁夫称奇了。匈牙利关复后父亲侥幸归来是小格鲁夫一生的荣幸，因为家里的顶梁柱不能少。短暂的和平环境终于让小格鲁夫能发展各种兴趣，增长见识了。就读大学预科时的小格鲁夫依旧表现活跃，期间还给报社写文章，但思想独立，坚决不写那些政治色彩浓厚的报道，后来的针对他家族的政治运动也让他打消了当作家的念头。

  大学预科的物理老师瓦伦斯基先生在一次家长会上给了格鲁夫一段精彩的评价，没料最终成为了事实。——“人生就像一个大湖泊。所有的男孩子都从一端进入水里并开始游泳。并不是所有的人都能够游过去。但是,我相信他们中的一个人能够游过去,这个人就是葛鲁夫。”

  预科期间他对物理和化学都有浓厚的兴趣，还经常自己偷偷做实验，有一个精英圈子，用现在的话来说的“很拉风”。

  格鲁夫见证了匈牙利在照搬苏联模式中僵硬的计划经济体制，还好他父亲是个很有能耐的人，最后他通过层层关系上了大学。请注意，并不是他成绩的问题，相反，他成绩很好，而是阶层原因，也就是以前中国所说的“层份”。

  大学的格鲁夫实在太出色了，文理皆通，十分有创意地将化学和戏剧结合起来创作了毕业晚会的节目，而且自编、自导、自演。才智胆识可见一斑。

  匈牙利事件后，格鲁夫为躲避伤害被迫西逃，便开始了传奇般的越境逃亡。期间经历坎坷，一波三折，但他都入驾熟就轻，成功潜到维也拉。但在申请去美国的难民中成功一搏，终于达成心愿，着实让人为他捏了把汗。

  经历了风险的乘船后成功渡过大西洋，达到美国，又在亲友的帮助下入校学习，同时修两个学校的课，靠着自己的勤工俭学维持着，还主动交付在姑姑家了费用，其独立自强的精神可见于此。实在“太有才了。”

  看完此书，终于知道世界顶级CEO是怎样炼成的了。

  正如有人说的，“没有诺伊斯，英特尔不会成为一家著名的公司；没有摩尔，英特尔不可能有足够的力量和士气以处于领导地位；而如果没有格鲁夫，英特尔甚至都不会成其为公司。”他不但使英特尔成为半导体行业的典范，更缔造了别人难以模仿的英特尔模式；高度的组织化和整体化。

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• 大概看看第三章就行了

  作者：cheese 发布时间：2022-03-01 17:09:08

  第3章10种方法能够将自己家快速变成“培养聪明孩子

  的住宅”137

  1.不要孤立儿童房140

  2.让家里任何一个空间都可以变成孩子学习的场所141

  3.在家庭内部“搬迁”142

  4.打造能让孩子和家人留下深刻印象的空间143

  5.充实属于母亲的空间146

  6.巧妙地向孩子展示“父亲的背影”148

  7.注重招待客人的空间149好

  8.打造能够通过五感去体会的空间150

  9.实现“书写交流”152

  10.打造展示空间154

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• 误人子弟的历史读物

  作者：司马辽 发布时间：2017-07-01 19:15:51

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• 做人做事的普遍原则

  作者：Hammer_ 发布时间：2012-02-03 18:21:57

  Before we commence reading How To Win Friends And Influence People, we should first realize that this book had been written to be used to as textbook for the author's course in Effective speaking and Human relationship and it still used for today.

  So please not categorize this book as Self-help or Motivational book which often be degraded by those who unceasingly declaim how badly they hate this sort of things.

  Dealing with people is probably the biggest problem we face, especially if you are in business. Those principles can apply to all walks of people.

  If you wish to get the most out of this book, there is one indispensable requirement, one essential infinitely more important than any rule or technique. Unless you have this one fundamental requisite, a thousand rules on how to study will avail little.

  What is this magic requirement? Just this: a deep, driving desire to learn, a vigorous determination to increase your ability to deal with people.

  Once you believe,that works.

  “Education,” said the author “is the ability to meet life’s situations,”

  If by the time you have finished reading the first three chapters of this book- if you aren’t then a little better equipped to meet life’s situations, then I shall consider this book to be a total failure so far as you are concerned. For “the great aim of education,” said the author, “is not knowledge but action.”

  And this is an action book :)

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  readingnote:

  第一大章：怎样赢得朋友

  原则一：永远不要去批评别人

  很精辟，我们应该转换方式，让他们自己发现，或者用一种温和，婉转的方式，反之就算是中肯的批评也是有害无利

  1.ninety-nine times out of a hundred, people don’t criticize themselves for anything, no matter how wrong it may be.

  2.Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment

    

  3.Let’s realize that the person we are going to correct and condemn will probably justify himself or herself, and condemn us in return or, like the gentle Taft, will say: “I don’t see how I could have done any differently from what I have.

  4.每当我们想要批评别人的时候，想想这句话：“I don’t see how I could have done any differently from what I have”Judge not, that ye be not judged

  5.最真诚的忠告------勿责人，常思已过：Do you know someone you would like to change and regulate and improve? Good! That is fine. I am all in favor of it, But why not begin on yourself? From a purely selfish standpoint, that is a lot more profitable than trying to improve others - yes, and a lot less dangerous. “Don’t complain about the snow on your neighbor’s roof,” said Confucius, “when your own doorstep is unclean.”

  6.每个人都是感性的动物：When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.

  7.我们应该做的：Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do. That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. “To know all is to forgive all.”

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  原则二 如何与人打交道---Give honest and sincere appreciation

  1、（有道理！）There is only one way under high heaven to get anybody to do anything. Did you ever stop to think of that? Yes, just one way. And that is by making the other person want to do it. Remember, there is no other way.

  2.每个人都得到赞扬啊：The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.The desire for a feeling of importance is one of the chief distinguishing differences between mankind and the animals

  3. 赞扬和奉承的区别：The difference between appreciation and flattery? That is simple. One is sincere and the other insincere. One comes from the heart out,the other from the teeth out. One is unselfish,the other selfish. One is universally admired, the other universally condemned.

  4.多点发自内心的感激，别吝啬对我们爱的人的赞扬：When we are not engaged in thinking about some definite problem, we usually spend about 95 percent of our time thinking about ourselves. Now, if we stop thinking about ourselves for a while and begin to think of the other person’s good points, we won’t have to resort to flattery so cheap and false that it can be spotted almost before it is out of the mouth

  5. 真的是这样呢：Let’s cease thinking of our accomplishments, our wants. Let’s try to figure out the other person’s good points. Then forget flattery. Give honest, sincere appreciation. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise,” and people will cherish your words and treasure them and repeat them over a lifetime -repeat them years after you have forgotten them

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  原则三. 去谈论人家感兴趣的事----Arouse in the other person an eager want

  1.少谈自己，谈大家的兴趣和利益所在：So the only way cm earth to influence other people is to talk about what they want and show them how to get it. Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want? but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.（销售的人应该学学，学会从他人的角度看问题）

  2.If out of reading this book you get just one thing- an increased tendency to think always in terms of other people’s point of view, and see things from their angle - if you get that one thing out of this book, it may easily prove to be one of the building blocks of your career.

  3、我们的目的不是为了操纵人，而是实现双赢：Looking at the other person’s point of view and arousing in him an eager want for something is not to be construed as manipulating that person so that he will do something that is only for your benefit and his detriment

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  第二大章：怎样让人喜欢你

  原则一：Become genuinely interested in other people--对他人感兴趣

  1.If we want to make friends, let’s put ourselves out to do things for other people -things that require time, energy, unselfishness and thoughtfulness

  2.If we want to make friends, let’s greet people with animation and enthusiasm. When somebody calls you on the telephone use the same psychology

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  原则二：经常微笑

  1.Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, “I like you, You make me happy. I am glad to see you.”That is why dogs make such a hit. They are so glad to see us that they almost jump out of their skins. So, naturally, we are glad to see them. A baby’s smile has the same effect

  2.A man without a smiling face must not open a shop.”Your smile is a messenger of your good will. Your smile brightens the lives of all who see it. To someone who has seen a dozen people frown, scowl or turn their faces away, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds. Especially when that someone is under pressure from his bosses, his customers, his teachers or parents or children, a smile can help him realize that all is not hopeless -that there is joy in the world.

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  原则三：记住别人的名字

  Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language

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  原则四： 做一个好的听众，让别人去谈论自己（Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves）

  So if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other persons will enjoy answering. Encourage them to talk about themselves and their accomplishments.

  Remember that the people you are talking to are a hundred times more interested in themselves and their wants and problems than they are in you and your problems. A person’s toothache means more to that person than a famine in China which kills a million people. A boil on one’s neck interests one more than forty earthquakes in Africa. Think of that the next time you start a conversation

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  原则五：谈别人感兴趣的事（Talk in terms of the other person’s interests. ）

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  原则六：承认对方的优点和对自己的重要性（Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely）

  The unvarnished truth is that almost all the people you meet feel themselves superior to you in some way, and a sure way to their hearts is to let them realize in some subtle way that you recognize their importance, and recognize it sincerely. Remember what Emerson said: “Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him.

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  第三大章：How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking

  原则一：避免和人辩论，因为你永远不会赢---这个，偶觉得还是方式的问题，不过还是尽量避免好了，因为没啥意义啊！：）The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it

  You can’t win an argument. You can’t because if you lose it, you lose it,and if you win it, you lose it. Why?Well, suppose you triumph over the other man and shoot This argument full of holes and prove that he is non compos mentis.Then what? You will feel fine. But what about him? You have made him feel inferior. You have hurt his pride. He will resent your triumph. And A man convinced against his will Is of the same opinion still

  If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes, but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s good wil

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  独立一段，关于怎样应对argument的建议：

  一 不同的见解是有益的：Welcome the disagreement. Remember the slogan, “When two partners always agree, one of them is not necessary.” If there is some point you haven’t thought about, be thankful if it is brought to your attention. Perhaps this disagreement is your opportunity to be corrected before you make a serious mistake.

  二：(别相信你的第一直觉印象--适用于异见）Distrust your first instinctive impression. Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Be careful. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not your best

  三（控制你的脾气）Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry. Listen first. Give your opponents a chance to talk. Let them finish. Do not resist, defend or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Don’t build higher barriers of misunderstanding.

  四：求同存异：Look for areas of agreement. When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which

  you agree.

  五：诚实： Be honest, Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your

  opponents and reduce defensiveness.

  六：Promise to think over your opponents’ ideas and study them carefully. And mean it. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: “We tried to tell you, but you wouldn’t listen.”

  七：感谢你的对手：Thank your opponents sincerely for their interest. Anyone who takes the time to disagree with you is interested in the same things you are. Think of them as people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends.

  八：给点时间给对方（很重要，很多时候回头看，会觉得当时狠傻，没必要为这问题吵，也从另一方面得出，和人去争论什么，真的没啥意义）Postpone action to give both sides time to think through the problem

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  原则二：别告诉别人自己比他们要高明

  这段狠有哲理，别证明自己比其他人聪明，就算知道，也别告诉他

  That is a challenge. It arouses opposition and makes the listener want to battle with you before you even start. It is difficult, under even the most benign conditions, to change people’s minds. So why make it harder? Why handicap yourself? If you are going to prove anything, don’t let anybody know it. Do it so subtly, so adroitly, that no one will feel that you are doing it.

  This was expressed succinctly by Alexander Pope: Men must be taught as if you taught them not And things unknown proposed as things forgot.

  Over three hundred years ago Galileo said: You cannot teach a man anything? you can only help him to find it within himself.

  As Lord Chesterfield said to his son: Be wiser than other people if you can? but do not tell them so.

  （勇于承认错误是最对的）You will never get into trouble by admitting that you may be wrong. That will stop all argument and inspire your opponent to be just as fair and open and broad-minded as you are. It will make him want to admit that he, too, may be wrong

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  原则三：勇于认错

  When we are right, let’s try to win people gently and tactfully to our way of thinking, and when we are wrong and that will be surprisingly often, if we are honest with ourselves - let’s admit our mistakes quickly and with enthusiasm. Not only will that technique produce astonishing results? but, believe it or not, it is a lot more

  fun, under the circumstances, than trying to defend oneself.

  Remember the old proverb: "By fighting you never get enough, but by yielding you get more than you expected.”

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  原则四：以友好的方式开始 Begin in a friendly way.

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  原则五： Get the other person saying “yes, yes”

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  原则六：Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.

  （这里和上面有点重复了，其实这里有很多原则是共通的）

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  原则七：Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers

  卡内基是个中国通，他引用了好多中国古代的谚语和道德经的东西：

  " The reason why rivers and seas receive the homage of a hundred mountain streams is that they keep below them. Thus they are able to reign over all the mountain streams. So the sage, wishing to be above men, put himself below them, wishing to be before them, he put himself behind them. Thus, though his place be above men, they do not feel his weight,though his place be before them, they do not count it an injury.”

  海纳百川，有容乃大

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  如果仅仅把这书当做是快餐书，励志书，成功学，

  真的很可惜，

  这书流传这么久真有它的道理，一些自以为是的“读书人”可能不屑看这类书，替他们遗憾。

  一本值得反复看的经典之作，最重要是去实践上述的原则，

  要记住：“This is an action book.”

  2012.2.3

  By Hammer

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• “人形打字机”的唠叨作品，不知算短篇集中的长篇还是长篇中的短篇集

  作者：非帅的杂货铺 发布时间：2020-06-01 21:49:45

  千本樱文库

  推出的

  “忘却侦探系列”

  已于今年年初出版了4部，笔者已看过了第一部

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  （以下简称'备忘录'），一部相当精彩的短篇集，一部非比寻常的日常推理短篇集。今次，我要向大家推荐的是“忘却侦探系列”的第二部作品

  《掟上今日子的推荐文》

  （以下简称'推荐文'），看完之后绝对让你有种想骂人的冲动！为什么会这样呢，请让我给各位看官娓娓道来。

  拿到实体书，封面用的还是日版原版的封面，由台湾省设计师VOFAN老师设计。整本书拿在手很有厚重之感，足见纸张的用料相当扎实，300多页的内容配上如此的设计和用料，足见千本樱文库对读者们的诚意，我都要双手给他们点赞了。

  这次的作品共有三章,分为：

  第一章 今日子小姐的鉴定

  第二章 今日子小姐的推定

  第三章 今日子小姐的推荐

  当时我看了这目录，以为有三个短篇，看下来的感受是，这其实应该算是短篇的加长版。第一章算是一个短篇，有100多页，算是比较长度适中；第二章和第三章是讲同一个事件，加起来有占了全书的三分之二，这感觉已经不像是短篇内容，已经算是中篇了吧。而且第一起事件和第二起事件还有关联性，那么这样看起来三章合起来又算是个长篇，太拗口了。

  封面的“两亿元名画，一夜之间只值两百万”，这噱头足足赚足了人们的眼球，这便是第一起事件。另外，这次的男主角并不是上一本'备忘录'中的隐馆厄介，而是这次在美术馆担任警卫的亲切守（西尾，还我男主角，我要看厄介酱，还我厄介酱....此处省略若干字），负责术馆的安保工作。然后我们的女主角——掟上今日子华丽丽地出场，亲切守邂逅了今日子后，发现她每次来美术馆，都会盯着一幅画，足足看一个小时，然后心满意足地离开。这就勾起了男主角的好奇心。直到有一次，今日子又一次来美术馆，看也不看幅画离开，终于让男主角鼓足勇气向今日子展开了灵魂三问，who？where？why？噢，不对，是开启了第一起事件的起因。

  不愧是“人形打字机”，这起吊足人胃口的事件，也能写一百多页，而且描写了非常多的男主角的心理活动，我脑中幻想出N多草泥马在大草原狂奔。打住打住，真不愧是西尾维新，第一起事件的谜团可谓是相当精彩，“一幅两亿元的名画，一夜之间只值两百万”，这按正常逻辑推演的话，是不是画偷了，被人换过了；亦或是画的表面被人涂鸦过等等。后面的解答可谓是掉书袋，或者可以称之为西尾的炫技表现。以专业名词来解决这起事件，通过今日子之口来解决此案件，这对读者来说，怎么看都是见不公平的事，西尾老贼，你太可恨了，为毛要用冷知识来拉低我等读者的智商呢！太可恨了！如果是美术从业者，估计这起事件看到一半就会恍然大悟起来。

  紧接着由于第一起事件的原因，亲切守被辞退，也因此卷入了第二起事件，被卷入的当然还有掟上今日 子。这起事件“人形打字机”足足写了两章，占整部作品的三分之二。这起事件可以被称之为“杀人未遂事件”。一位裱框大师，为了做成一件集大成的举世无双的作品，而被人刺杀的事件。被卷入的掟上今日子，阴差阳错地接受了这次委托（看到最后，你会知道，这是件没赚钱的委托）。今日子展现出了非凡的动手能力，运动能力，说谎能力。我能说西尾老贼把这么可爱的今日子，塑造成一个为了查明真相，满嘴谎言的女人，有多么的伤心。还我可爱的今日子！还我可爱的今日子！还我可爱的今日子！好吧，重要的事已经说了三遍了，我们继续正题。

  从整个事件看起来，其实人物就这么几个人，作为读者，我们就算猜也能猜到其中的凶手。但是，这可是一部推理小说，要综合线索才能推演出最终的结论，排除所有不可能，剩下的就是真相，就算是再不可思议也是真相。这起事件，一直在说“烟雾弹”，其实我想说，西尾维新也给了我们无数个“烟雾弹”，那就是男主人公——亲切守，而且有了今日子在旁背书，我等读者就会相信，咦，今日子说的才是正确的，这位亲切守的推论都是错的嘛！这就是西尾维新下的一个陷阱，估计有很多像我一样的读都踩进去了。这就是误导的作用，但是被西尾反过来用了，用女主角来误导人，而不是用作为陪衬的男主角，作为女主角的助手来误导。

  这起看起来不复杂的案件，被“人形打字机”写得极其复杂，并让我等绕进沟里去，西尾老贼，你真的是太会灌水（网络用语，意指喜欢写与主线无关废话，拉长篇幅）了，您这是为了骗稿费吗？真不好意思，我都不得不往这方面去想了。

  事件解决之后，附记中记录了今日子想招个助手，想到了待业中的亲切守（一旁的隐馆厄介要哭了，我可是上一部的男主角啊！），她手上的推荐文指明让亲切守当她的助手，敢情第三章今日子小姐的推荐指的就是这件事呀,我顿时恍然大悟。

  总的来说，这是“人形打字机”的唠叨作品，可能没有上部那几个短篇精彩，而且叙事如此唠叨，而且更换了男主角，改动了可爱的今日子的设定，但这并不妨碍这部作品的表现力。能把短篇作品，拉长为一部长篇作品，而且就用两个小诡计撑起来，这也不是一般的作家可以做到，光是这一点，我已经很佩服了。希望“忘却侦探系列”的下部作品依旧精彩，让我们再次见到可爱的今日子。

  PS:话说，改编的日剧，里面的男主角一直是隐馆厄介，改编的还是相当不错的。

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